So often we sit in silence when things are happening all around us. We allow people to say and do things to us and we don’t interrupt it. We allow others to speak for us but we don’t speak for ourselves.
Why is that?
Is it out of respect? Is it fear? Is it lack of confidence in yourself? Are you unable to clearly express your thoughts? Is it fear of someone’s reaction to what you have to say? Is it that you are not versed on the subject and are afraid to ask a question? Are you afraid of conflict?
Not everyone carries this burden. There are some that speak up too much. Nevertheless, to those who have had this struggle with your voice or who are still struggling now; Now is the time to SPEAK UP!
Engage in conversations freely. Don’t expect people to agree and don’t worry about conflict. As long as you respectful express your opinion it doesn’t matter if it’s in opposition. It’s yours to share.
You see, if you don’t speak up now, you train people not to listen to you. Then when you finally fight through the fear and express your ideas and concerns, you may find that people are not listening to you because you never had any input before. They may disregard or devalue what you say or just ignore you. And sometimes this stigma follows you.
We tend to use the word “shy” to describe us. Actually, the meaning of the word may fit but we lean on it and use it as a crutch and a validation to sit quiet, not participate in conversation, or not to voice our true opinion.
Holding it in doesn’t only deprive you of your voice but it might be a missed opportunity to encourage someone else who’s reluctant to speak up.
So, I say SPEAK UP! I can’t tell you what to say but say it! Whatever’s in your heart, your mind, your soul. Get it out, respectfully. Everyone has a voice and everyone’s voice is important. Use yours.
Add to the conversation. Share your knowledge. Keep the conversation going. You never know who may need your advice, opinion, or insight. Trust yourself. Silence is not always golden. Speak Up!
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